Looking For Love - Why Do I Have Bad Luck With Women And How Do I Learn To Seduce Women?

Have you ever looked for love in all the wrong ways? I think most of us have. When I was in seventh grade I was in love with a girl named Nicole. Unfortunately Nicole did not share this fascination concerning me. I did all the wrong things to try to attract her. I became best friends with her best friend in order to glean every piece of knowledge I could about her. In the end it all just came off kind of creepy to her.



Not quite as creepy though as what her best friend did. You see her best friend Ashley was in love with a friend of mine named Stewart. Stewart, like Nicole had no interest in Ashley. The day before Valentine's Day Ashley called me and told me about her plan. I advised her that she should probably not do it. She didn't listen to my advice...

The next day at school Ashley came wearing a t-shirt on which she had described in sharpie marker how much she was in love with Stewart. All over this white t-shirt were words in black "...Stewart and Ashley forever...I love Stewart...Stewart is so fine!" As you can imagine this did not go over very well. She was extremely embarrassed and mad at me for not doing more to stop her.

Have you ever pursued a love interest like a seventh grader? You might not have written on a t-shirt, but have you ever done something ridiculous for someone who didn't deserve it? You see there is nothing wrong with doing super romantic things: sending flowers, buying gifts, etc. But the other person has to be deserving of those acts of kindness. If they are just someone you are interested in they are not yet deserving of this type of flattery.If you want to win a girl's heart then you aren't going to do it by acting like a seventh grader. The best way you can do it is by a tease. Flirt with them, but just a little and then pull all the way back to see what they do next. Another way of doing this is to completely ignore the girl you are interested in while you chat up and joke with her less attractive friends. If she is used to being the center of attention this will drive her crazy and make her work hard to catch your eye.

When you can get a woman working hard for you then you hold all the cards. The key to holding all the cards is a dirty little word called seduction.